Table of Contents


Front Matter


Main Content

Why We Avoid Hard Conversations

The psychology of avoidance — and the cost of things left unsaid.

The Anatomy of a Difficult Conversation

What's actually happening beneath the surface, and how to navigate it.

Preparing for the Conversation

Getting clear on what you want, what you fear, and what you'll say.

Having the Conversation

Opening well, staying on track, and landing somewhere productive.

Workplace Conversations

Feedback, boundaries, conflicts, negotiations, and career-defining moments.

Relationship Conversations

Partners, family, friends — the people who matter most.

When Conversations Go Wrong

De-escalation, recovery, and knowing when to walk away.

Using AI as Your Practice Partner

Rehearsing, scripting, and building confidence with AI.

Your 30-Day Conversation Challenge

A structured program to tackle the conversations you've been avoiding.


Back Matter